Goals And Dreams For 2015!

Goals And Dreams Of 2015!

Happy New Year! www.mytributejournal.com Welcoming a New Year traditionally goes hand in hand with making resolutions, but I think I pretty well made my case on how I feel about New Year’s resolutions last year in this post.  For me, the term resolution suggests the need to make major changes–like maybe who I am just isn’t good enough.  Whereas, the words goals and dreams conjures up feelings of growth and adventure.  I would imagine that each one of us realizes that there’s always room for self-improvement, but often the way we choose to go about it makes all the difference in whether or not we will be successful in our endeavors!

Rather than beating myself up too much, if my personal inventory takes on a more positive approach, then when I set a few new goals, I’m much more likely to feel optimistic about my ability to accomplish them and ultimately I’ll be able to work harder at seeing some of my dreams come true.

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I came across this quote several years ago and tape it to the front of my journal each year to remind me that my biggest limitations are usually the ones I set for myself!

Take Time To Write Goals And Dreams Down!

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Throughout her life, my mom always kept some sort of journal; she encouraged me to do the same, telling me that one of the first steps to accomplishing my goals and making my dreams come true was to write them down.  Of course, it also helps to be somewhat realistic and devise a plan of attack too.  I’m well aware that this isn’t rocket science, but good advice all the same.

Some Goal And Dream Books I Love!

I know there are a lot of resources out there for online journals now, but there’s just something about the actual written word that resonates with me.  I get a bit giddy when it comes to finding a fun, new journal to record my thoughts in each year.

  • If all you want is a basic pocket planner without any of the bells and whistles, so to speak, “Today Is The Day” planner by Galison Mudpuppy of New York is ideal. 

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Pocket Planner www.mytributejournal.com

This handy planner is perfect for writing in day to day appointments and notes, but also shows a week at a glance, as well.

  • If simplicity is what you need in a journal, I love any of the “Jotter” booklets by Studio Oh!

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The “Gratitude Jotter” is my personal favorite–there are some thoughtful quotes written on a few of the pages, subtle reminders to be grateful for even the very craziest of days! 

  • I picked up this little gem of a journal-type book recently to take the place of all the sticky notes I tend to have hanging around my desk.

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I record inspiring thoughts and fun ideas I want to try in this journal–including pictures.  In one section I also keep record of some of the projects my husband and I do together around the house.  I even include product resources we used, paint codes etc. then if I ever need to refer to it at some point in the future, the information is all written down in one place–it also serves as a reminder of all we’ve accomplished, I often tend to focus on the next thing on our “to do” list instead of appreciating the things that are done.   

  • Santa gave my me and my husband his favorite journal pick for Christmas; I guess he figured that no matter how long two people have been together, there are always fun ways to learn new things about each other!

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A lot of husbands out there might be inclined to do the exasperated shoulder shrug if they were presented with this journal, but it’s cleverly put together by Random House and as stated on the cover page, there are insightful questions that “ask you to reflect on your own life” while others “invite you to jot down something about your partner or write quick notes to one another” —then as the years go by you’ll be able to see how your lives evolve side by side…if nothing else, it should spark some interesting conversation!  Here are a few sample questions:  “If you could take a class on any subject, what would it be?”  Also, “Write the first sentence of your partner’s biography!”  One of my very favorite questions is asked on March 21st: “Where would you like to travel together?”     

  • Speaking of travel, the “I Was Here: A Travel Journal For The Curious Minded” by Chronicle Books, prompts venture seekers, whether near or far, to capture the unique details of their journeys!

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My son and his wife are living in Germany while he serves as a dentist for the Army for a few years, so my husband and I are planning to make good use of this journal in 2015, since we are making plans to visit them this year!  I think I will send one to them too; every weekend seems to be an amazing adventure as they explore Germany and all the neat surrounding countries nearby.  

What I’m learning now is…

If keeping a journal isn’t your thing, I understand, I used to give my mom the teenage eye roll when she gave me a new journal each year.  But since I’ve had the opportunity to catch a more personal glimpse into her life through journals and other mementoes since losing her, what I’m learning now is we all have a wonderful legacy to record!

Share one or two of your goals or dreams for 2015 here with us and you may find yourself receiving one of my favorite journal picks!

One of my goals for 2015 is to be a little more fearless!

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Whatever inspires you to live well–I wish that and more for you this year!

–Mary

 

Happy Grandparents Day!

Happy Grandparents Day!

In 1979 President Jimmy Carter signed the official decree that made the first Sunday after Labor Day each year as National Grandparents Day.

The proclamation reads in part:

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Marian McQuade of Oak Hill, West Virginia, who spent many years working with the elderly, was instrumental in seeing legislation passed to honor grandparents.  As a mother herself of 15 children and grandmother to 43 grandchildren, ten great-grandchildren, and one great-great grandchild, I think it’s is fair to say that Ms. McQuade, along with so many other dedicated grandparents, are deserving of at least one day to celebrate their wide-reaching influence in the lives of so many!

When my husband first learned over six years ago that he was soon to become a new grandpa, I don’t think he was necessarily overjoyed at the prospect…

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…perhaps he was a bit fearful of being seen as becoming part of some pre-historic population!?  However, once he got his first glimpse of our oldest granddaughter, Makena, after she was born, and then her sister, Marli, a few years later, he has now gladly taken on the coveted role of being a grandparent–as have I.

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 “Perfect love sometimes does not come until after you have grandchildren!”  Welsh Proverb

My own father and mother, as well as my husband’s parents, were the kind of grandparents you’d want your children to have–and now, at this stage of my life, I hold dear the neat examples they were for me of being amazing grandparents!

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“We, like our grandchildren, begin with a childhood we thought would never end.  Now, all of a sudden, we’re older than our parents were when we thought they were old!”  Lois Wyse

It’s Grand To Be A Grand!

On this very special Grandparents Day,  I want to pay special tribute to a few other wonderful grandparents that I have the privilege of knowing and have the opportunity, on occasion, to gain insight from them on their unique experiences as grandparents!

I feel blessed to be able to share grandparenting duties for Makena and Marli with my son-in-law’s mother, Glee.  Even with 14 grandchildren, some of them teenagers, and a full-time job, Glee manages to keep up with all their activities, and with the help of her children, plans regular family parties so that everyone stays close–after all, there is nothing so fun as having cousins for some of your best friends!

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“Grandmother — a wonderful mother with lots of practice!”  Tribute Journal

My good friend and co-worker, Carol, has been a nurse for several years and like me, has witnessed the miracle of birth many times over, but she will also tell you that there are no words to describe actually witnessing your own grandchildren being born!  Carol told me that one of the things she loves about being a grandma is feeling a lot less rushed and being able to take the time to really enjoy every little thing about each grandchild–that, and being able to see the big picture, so to speak… “After having raised my own kids, I now realize that certain little nuisances experienced at various ages will soon be outgrown, and given time, these little ones, with guidance from wonderful parents and grandparents, are going to be terrific adults!”

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I’ve been blessed with neat neighbors who are great friends too.  We’ve watched our own children grow up over the years and shake our heads sometimes as we now see each other’s grandchildren growing up and ask ourselves, “How did we get here!”  It’s so surreal sometimes!  Alison is one of those neighbors, and she told me that she’s always been excited about being a grandma and never really worried that it sounded like she was old–“It’s the very best part of getting along in years!  I’ve felt like it’s the best part of both worlds–I feel the same intense love for my grandchildren as I did for my children as they were growing up, but with none of the added responsibilities of telling them to go clean their rooms, do their homework or practice the piano.  The only job I have with my sweet grandchildren is to make them feel loved and adored…my sincere hope is that they will always know that there is at least one person in the world who thinks they are absolutely perfect!”    Image-1 (6)

“The idea that no one is perfect is a view most commonly held by people with no grandchildren!”  Doug Larsen

Janica is another dear, long-time friend, and the thoughts she shared with me on being a grandma are what I imagine all new grandparents must feel in some form or another as they embark on this venture of grandparenthood–“Everything you hear about being a grandma is true…times ten!  Everyone always told me that it was so much sweeter than being a parent, and I could not agree more!  I was lucky enough to have a grandma who adored me.  I just never realized how much until I became a grandmother myself.  Unfortunately, none of my own children experienced a close relationship with their grandparents.  It has made me even more determined to give back the way my sweet grandma gave to me.  And why wouldn’t I?  Cute Nash and Nayson are simply the best!  I’m looking forward to many more fun times as they grow and hopefully we are blessed with more to come!”

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(Janica is a great cook, so I for one know that her grandchildren will be served yummy cookies, along with a lot of love.) 

Another co-worker and fun friend, Julie, has 12 grandchildren and lives by the motto that as a grandma she picks up on the fun where the parents leave off!  Julie and her husband recently purchased a camper trailer because her family loves to camp, but she needed a few of the basic necessities of home–like a bed and a bath room!  (I have definitely got to up my game with more than just a backyard camp out if I want to keep up with this awesome lady!)  Julie told me that as much fun as it is to get together with all her grandchildren, she loves spending one on one time with them too–she’ll plan individual birthday dates or shopping trips with each of her older granddaughters.  Julie also makes a point of taking time off work a few times a year to visit her grandchildren who live out of state.  I love that Julie said her grandkids know better than to leave her house when they visit, without giving good-bye hugs!

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“The best place to be when you’re sad is Grandpa’s lap!”  Tribute Journal

(I love this picture on so many levels…it tells it how it is sometimes when dealing with children–and since Julie is such a cool, chill grandma, I can just imagine that her grandson crying on her husband’s lap didn’t phase her too much.  Sure makes for a great picture though!  Too funny!)   

What I’m learning now is…

My dad used to tease that there was nothing quite like having grandchildren to restore your faith in hereditary!  As my husband and I watch our two, sweet granddaughters grow and develop their fun personalities, we have often found ourselves commenting that it sure would be fun to have our parents be able to be here and see them.  What I’m learning now is that I’ve come to realize that our folks play a bigger role in these cute girls lives than I can even imagine!

“Sometimes our Grandparents are like grand-angels!”  Lexie Saige

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I love comments, so please leave one—at least, and share something you find special about your own grandparents or what you love most about being one!

–Mary

America! Where The Stars And Stripes And The Eagle Fly!

America!  Where The Stars And Stripes And The Eagle Fly!

My husband has an old school country music mix that he plays full blast when he’s working out.  One particular song, “Where The Stars And Stripes And the Eagle Fly” by Aaron Tippin, is usually amped way up to an even more deafening volume–most nights I’ll yell into him to turn the music down, but with the 4th of July just a few days away, I guess I was feeling the patriotic spirit of the season, so the other evening I took the time to really listen to the words of this song as I stood outside our exercise room–and it didn’t take long for tears to fill my eyes…

You can listen to the song here, if you’d like, while scrolling through post: 

Where The Stars and Stripes And The Eagle Fly by: Aaron Tippin

America's flag--Where the Stars And Stripes and the Eagle Fly! www.mytributejournal.com“Well, if you ask me where I came from, here’s what I tell everyone, I was born by God’s dear grace, in an extraordinary place–where the Stars and Stripes and the eagle fly!”  

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“It’s a big ol’ land with countless dreams, happiness ain’t out of reach…”

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“…hard work pays off the way it should.” 

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 “Yeah, I’ve seen enough to know that we’ve got it good…”

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“…where the Stars and Stripes and the eagle fly!”

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“…and there’s a bell that still echoes the price that it cost to be free!” 

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“I pledge allegiance to this flag, and if that bothers you, well, that’s too bad.”

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“But if you’ve got pride and you’re proud you do–hey, we could use some more like me and you!

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 “Where the Stars and Stripes and the eagle fly!”

“Yes, there’s a lady that stands in a harbor for what we believe, and there’s a bell that still echoes the price that it cost to be free.

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“No, it aint the only place on earth, but it’s the only place that I prefer…”

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“…to love my wife and raise my kids, hey, the same way that my daddy did!”

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“Where the Stars and Stripes…”

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“… and the eagle fly!”

“Where the Stars and Stripes and the eagle fly!” 

As we celebrate America’s birthday this week, let’s have a little patriotic love fest-what makes you America proud?  

Happy 4th of July to everyone!

–Mary