A New York City Tribute!

A New York City Tribute!

As cliché as it sounds, like any t-shirt spiriting the infamous slogan sold by endless vendors on the street corners of New York City…

I Love New York!

My parents had traveled to New York City several times in their many journeys throughout their lifetime, but I did not have the opportunity to visit there until I was expecting my youngest child.  My husband’s profession is in finance and he used to travel to New York City more frequently than he does now.  When we were finally able to arrange for me to accompany my husband on a much anticipated business/pleasure trip, I remember waiting for him in the immense courtyards of the Twin Towers feeling that it was surreal to witness the stately presence of these two iconic New York City landmarks!

Like so many events that mark time in history, I think we all remember where we were and what we were doing when we first heard word of the tragic events that took place in New York City on September 11, 2001!  I was at the hospital where I work, prepping to help receive a new baby that was soon to be born that morning by a scheduled caesarean section.  I attended a few other deliveries that day as well, and sadly, it seemed almost as if some of the parents were a little afraid to show the joy they felt as they held their precious babies close while watching some of the news coverage of the horrific events that took place in New York City on that day!  (I suspect that strong, kindred spirits share September 11th birthdays!)  

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Like many families, we have taken our children to New York City and enjoyed all the various activities that make going there such a unique experience!  Once while visiting New York, our youngest daughter, Mandi, who was about 17 years old at the time, really wanted us to take a tour of New York University!  Afterwards, Mandi told us that she was going to attend NYU one day!  (As mentioned, I was pregnant with Mandi when I first went to New York, so her love of this amazing city seems to have come innately!)  I’m not sure my husband and I really gave much credence to this statement at the time, and considering the price of tuition, we hoped it was a fleeting dream!

We underestimated the power of Mandi’s determination to fulfill her dream.  She studied exercise physiology as an undergraduate student, and is now working on her PhD at New York University!

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New York City has definitely taken on a more personal role in our hearts now that Mandi and her husband, Cole, live there! 

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Our son-in-law, Cole, is in his fourth year of medical school at NYU! 

Each time you touch down at JFK National Airport and hear Frank Sinatra singing “New York, New York” on the speakers of the elevator as you go up to your hotel room, you can’t help but be engulfed by the energy that is New York City!  We have been lucky to be able to get acquainted with this great city in a more intimate way since having Mandi and Cole as our personal guides when we visit!

On one of our last trips to New York City, we were able to go with Mandi and Cole to see the memorial pools that occupy the space where the two Twin Towers once stood.  We also saw the construction being done on the Freedom Tower.  The reverent nature of this sacred, historic site is palpable!  You leave with a firmer conviction to try harder at doing your part to make the world a better place!

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Our neighbor at the time, had a brother killed when a plane crashed into the Pentagon.   We found his name among the many listed at this beautiful memorial!

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The two pictures above were taken by Cole and capture so well the kind and thoughtful consideration that the designers of this amazing memorial took to heart as they created a way to pay tribute to all the loved ones lost on September 11, 2001!

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We cherish the opportunity we had to see the memorials at Ground Zero with Mandi and Cole!

I’m always fascinated with what Mandi and Cole are doing while living in New York City, and although they assure me that it isn’t always glamorous, they love living there!

When I asked them to tell me in a sentence or two what they loved most about New York City, this was their responses:

Cole said, “One of the things I love about New York is there’s always something new to experience.  You’ve never seen it all!”

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Mandi said,  “I love the fall in New York City!  I love that you can feel the anticipation of the holiday season in the air.  It is the best time to attend the farmer’s markets, and it’s a couple of months worth of perfect temperatures!  Another weather note…I love rain in New York.  I have always loved rainy days, so I appreciate that it rains much more here than it does in Utah.  (However, the snow situation is pitiful compared to Utah!) 

I also love that on a daily basis I have some nice interaction with a stranger.  People perceive New York City as a rushed and impersonal city, but that is a misconception.  I rarely have a day go by that a stranger doesn’t give a nice compliment or help me out in some way.  Finally, of course, I love all the activities in the city.  If you want an adventure, delicious food, or a relaxed evening out, you can make it happen!”

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Cole also took this picture of the beautiful New York City skyline and entitled it: “The setting sun on the center of the universe!”  Perfectly stated!

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Our thoughts and prayers are with New York City and all of America today!  May we ever be a force for good in the world!

I’d consider it an honor if you shared special memories you have of September 11, 2001, or any neat experiences you’ve had in New York City!

–Mary

Young, Old…Just Words!

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Much like my father, who was always very young looking for his age, my husband defies his age and pushes himself to prove that age truly is just a number!

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“Oh, the joys of wild living!”   Robert Browning

My family has lived up to our last name of Wilding, by doing some wild and crazy things sometimes!  They run and compete and do their best to live very active and eventful lives!  We are looking forward to being able to see our daughter, Mandi, fulfill her dream of running in the NYC marathon this coming November!

I am not competitive in the same ways that my family is, but there are many options available to define how we can stay young at heart–no matter our age!

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This weekend we give a great big shout out to our son-in-law, Shane, who will compete in the “LOTOJA” –a 200+ mile bike race that goes from Logan, Utah to Jackson Hole, Wyoming!

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My husband and I get the chance to keep our hearts really young by being able to tend our cute granddaughters while our daughter, Malia, acts as Shane’s support crew on his bike race!  The “Sleepover” edition of our “Cinderella Days” will be coming up!

What I’m learning now is…

My father always seemed to enjoy good health!  Even after being diagnosed with leukemia at 88 years young, he suffered very few symptoms of the disease.

“The enjoyment of life at any age is diminished by poor health.  My life has proved the wisdom of using good judgment and moderation in this area of life!”

from the history of Leroy Jorgensen

What I’m learning now is that everyone defines “living life to the fullest” and “staying young at heart” in various, assorted ways!  Obviously, being a nurse, I feel strongly that it’s important to follow the rules of good health!  When we take control of our lifestyles and live healthy, it’s more likely that we’ll live a full and active life…LONGER!

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How do you keep “young at heart” as you get older?

–Mary

Laboring On Labor Day…Or Not!

Laboring On Labor Day…Or Not!

“…but let’s not work all Labor Day weekend!”  I probably sounded a little like a whiny child when I uttered those words (and a few others) to my husband as we once again worked in our yard to slowly restore some semblance of order after the summer long construction mess!  Yes, I will admit I was feeling a bit of the martyr syndrome, since we really hadn’t been able to get away on a vacation this summer due to all the “projects” going on around our home!  (Lounging by the infinity pools in Puerto Vallarta seemed like eons ago!)  Besides, I grew up with a father who among other things, taught me to live my life with “moderation in all things” and it seemed that these outdoor jobs, although necessary and desired, were taking up much more than their fair share of our time and energy!

The unseasonably hot, end of summer heat even started to get to my husband, (along with my woeful bantering, I’m sure…) so today, Labor Day, we shirked the million and one things we could have done to “labor” around our home and headed up to the much cooler, beautiful mountain resort town of Park City, a short drive from our home!

At lunch, when we stopped to get a bite to eat at one of our favorite spots, the clever phrase on the t-shirt of one of the servers caught my eye!  The simple yet profound message, not only made me chuckle to myself, but jarred my senses a little!  I live nearby some of the most beautiful places in our country, and many people travel a from a long ways away sometimes to come and vacation here!

My Life Is Your Vacation t-shirt!Here’s a glimpse into my Labor Day epiphany!

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Even before my insightful lunch, I couldn’t help but be in awe of the cotton candy skies during an early morning walk! 

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Park City Historic Main Street!  www.mytributejournal.comWe enjoyed a short honeymoon in Park City on a long President’s Day weekend during college!  The eclectic quaintness of the Historic Main Street in Park City is still pretty much the same as it was years ago, despite the fact that homes and businesses heavily populate the areas all around it.  It’s always such a treat to go back and wander through the fun shops there!

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The historic Park City barn was once a dairy farm, but later the citizens of Park City purchased it to maintain the integrity of the entry corridor into Park City.  It’s one of my most favorite sites! Vintage gardens  www.mytributejournal.com

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Barn wood fence  www.mytributejournal.comMany of the small, vintage homes and lovely gardens are like taking a step back in time!

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The flowers and foliage are so vibrant in the mountain air! 

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The amazing mountainside views almost leave you breathless!

What I’m learning now is…

My father stated in his history that he always loved to travel and see what was on the other side of the hill or mountain, so to speak, but he loved the beautiful mountain range that encompassed the valley where he lived and raised his family the most!  What I’m learning now is that although I love to travel like my dad did, I do find I am the most happy when I’m at home surrounded by loved ones–even when there is work to be done!       

The beautiful view of the trees and mountains I see when I look out my back door…

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…and yes, the tools and yard work are still there waiting!

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Do you have any Labor Day traditions?  What are some of the neat things you do around your hometown?   I’d also love to hear how you best balance your time at home between work and play!

–Mary