Thoughtful Kindness! The Polar Vortex Edition!

 Thoughtful Kindness!  The Polar Vortex Edition!

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Even though extreme cold and snowy conditions have inspired the new term, Polar Vortex, to describe the unusual weather that has dominated the winter season this year, it seems the frigid temperatures and deep snow drifts haven’t lessened the abundant outpouring of thoughtful kindness by so many!

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On a grand scale, you can read the amazing story here about two Olympic sister biathletes–it is the ultimate story of thoughtful kindness and sacrifice!

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Closer to home, I have observed and been the recipient of many acts of good will and thoughtful kindness this winter!

Upon waking up to yet another snow storm last week, knowing that I needed to take my older granddaughter to school while my daughter and her husband took my youngest granddaughter in for surgery on her adenoids and tonsils, I once again geared up for slushy roads and slow traffic!

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That same day, I also received word that a dear neighbor had passed away from complications of pneumonia!  Despite my best efforts, it was hard to stave off the winter funk I felt setting in!  As the snow piled up, my granddaughter and I took refuge inside for the afternoon after I picked her up from school.  Later on that day, when I went to glimpse out my front window to see if the worst of the storm had passed in anticipation of going out to shovel snow, (my husband was out of town on business) you can imagine my delight when I saw my neighbor’s son handily taking on the task of snow blowing my driveway!

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Simple acts of “thoughtful kindness” often give the harsh realities of life a softer glow! 

When facing challenges, thoughtful kindness, whether given or received, always seem to give us a better perspective on life!

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Here’s to a happier polar vortex season!

Any stories of thoughtful kindness you’ve experienced or observed during the cold winter months?

–Mary

Red Rock Steak Salad–A Delectable Adaptation!

Red Rock Steak Salad–A Delectable Adaptation!

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I think we all have our “go to” restaurants when we want to grab a quick bite to eat and we’re craving something familiar and light–for me and my husband, it’s Red Rock Pub’s steak salad.  Seriously, so good!  On a cold, wintry evening last weekend, we were feeling in the mood for our favorite steak salad, but due to the frigid temperatures and icy roads, (Why is it that winter is never as much fun in January as it is at Christmas time?!) instead of venturing outside, we decided to try and recreate our own version of this delectable salad at home!

Without further adieu, as promised, here’s our adaptation of Red Rock Steak Salad!  I hope this makes your next lunch or dinner a yummy, special occasion!

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I like fewer onions and more cucumbers; add to your preference.  Roma tomatoes are good to use too.  For the French bread croutons, simply butter thick slices of bread, then cube and broil on a cookie sheet until lightly, golden brown.  Broil a few slices to have with your salad too!  The Dijon vinaigrette we like the best, that most resembles what they serve at Red Rock, is Litehouse Honey Dijon dressing.

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Red Rock serves their salad with a New York strip steak, we usually grill a rib-eye steak, then melt the gorgonzola cheese on top before adding it to the salad.

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I think what I really love about this salad is the combination of simple ingredients that create such a nice, rich flavor when mixed together!

Our grilled steak salad adaptation makes a perfect light dinner.  We still like to go out and share the steak salad at Red Rock, along with their wood-fired Barbeque Chicken Pizza every so often though!  ENJOY!

Any favorite restaurant dishes you’ve adapted your own version of to enjoy at home?  

–Mary

 

This Is Who I Am! The Ongoing Saga Of New Year’s Resolutions!

 This Is Who I Am!  The Ongoing Saga Of New Year’s Resolutions!

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As I said last year at this time, I’m not necessarily one for New Year’s resolutions; they just tend to make me feel a little grumpy–sigh!?  I do, however, think that it’s as good a time as any to take an informal inventory of what we see as our best attributes and decide how we might use them to help us better reach our personal potential, as well as make a few changes where necessary!

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My mom always used to caution me that there was a fine line between exerting too much pressure on ourselves to achieve lofty goals, and not putting forth enough effort to make our best life possible!      

This Is Who I Am–Breaking It Down

Feel free to join me in a little self-evaluation…

Personal: I’m a fairly organized person, and I can go with the flow pretty well too–but like so many busy wives and mothers, I could do better at carving out some personal time that speaks to some of my specific interests.  Also, at times it’s fine to be a little mindless, but overall, I know I can make better use of my time.

  • Replace radio channels with a good book tape on my drive to work.
  • Take more “tech” breaks and write personal notes to those I admire!
  • Allow more time to look around, be intrigued and learn from others!  

Physical:  While I don’t necessarily feel the urge to engage in extreme physical feats, I can certainly do better at changing things up every once in a while!

  • Call a friend and try a new exercise class together.  My work schedule is such that I usually just fit in a workout when I can, but sometimes it’s nice to be inspired by other’s abilities to really push their fitness boundaries! 
  • Prepare veggie sacks for snacks!  I usually watch what I eat, but I’d do better if I had some pre-made, healthy munchies handy! 

Relationships:  It sounds so cliché, but I truly believe that by not sweating the small stuff as our families grow and start to include in-laws and grandchildren, we can then enjoy the freedom to appreciate the unique characteristics that each brings to our new family mix!    

  • Enjoy a yearly trip together!  For me, this is a priority!  It takes time to plan and coordinate, but the ties that bind, so to speak, when we all get together, and the goodness observed in those we love, make it well worth the effort!
  • Plan one on one time too!  We all have busy schedules, but planning a few fun outings with each of our children and their spouses individually, especially when they live far away, affords a deeper connection that enriches each of us!  

Enjoy The Ride!

Perhaps most important is enjoying each day more fully as we make the journey in this life to discover who we really are and what we’re capable of doing!

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What I’m learning now is…

Before she moved, my daughter used to have this saying stenciled on a wall as you entered her home, accompanied by some fun pictures of her children.  What I’m learning now is that there are so many people in my life, including my children, that help me appreciate who I am right now as I strive to be better each day!

Do you make New Years resolutions?  What’s just one thing you’d like to accomplish this year?

–Mary