My Summer Bucket List!

My Summer Bucket List!

What, it’s June already!  In some ways I feel like it was just last week that we were lamenting our long winter season and the cold polar vortex!  But hey, bring on…

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I love summer–it has a fun, casual feel, but just like any other time of year, it often passes by too quickly…and then you’re left to wonder how it got away from you–sigh!

I usually have the light hearted, Carpe Diem, take on life that my father had…always wishing for grand adventures often leaves me longing for what’s ahead instead of relishing the day before me!  That doesn’t mean I’m not up for setting goals and making plans so things are more memorable in my life–in fact, this year I decided to make a Summer Bucket List!

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Even though it was clear back in October, my granddaughters remind me often that one of the first things on my Bucket List will be to keep a promise made at my Grandma’s Halloween Festival by planning…

My Summer Bucket List.

My family will tell you that my idea of “roughing it” is usually a nice motel, but I’ll be the first to light up the Coleman lantern at a summer backyard camp out with these two cute girls!

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My Summer Bucket List!

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Do you ever find yourself getting in a bit of a rut, rotating the same few recipes over and over again because…well, just because!  This summer I want to dig deep inside my recipe box and pull out some of the recipes I haven’t made in a while!  My mom’s recipe for lime frappe–has anybody said that word since the 70’s!?– is the best summertime drink, and my mother-in-law’s cherry squares are a light and easy summer desert!

My Summer Bucket List!

After rustling through my recipe box and pulling out a few I want to make this summer, it will be fun to plan a potluck patio party and serve some of them to my neighbors, as well as have them bring some of their favorite dishes too.  I have great neighbors, but probably like many of you, too often we end up just waving to each other as we’re going to and from our various obligations.

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This summer seems like the perfect time for a casual get-together to catch up with some of the most delightful people I know in a more relaxed setting.

My Summer Bucket List!

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I’m a little slow to join the biking craze, but with all the great bike trails popping up around my neighborhood, it’s hard not to be enticed.  My daughter has a nice route right behind her new home that I’m excited to try.

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Besides, who can resist putting on a cute helmet and going for a bike ride if you’re lucky enough to have this darling biking buddy!

My Summer Bucket List!

Recently my son, Jake, sent us this fun picture of his Friday night date with his wife, Whitney!

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Jake’s picture brought back memories for me and my husband of some great times we had all snuggled up in the back of his truck at he drive-in movie when we were dating!  It seems like these classic American icons are gradually disappearing, so before it’s too late, hopefully we can all get in on this unique, retro experience!

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Like any other time of year, there’s always plenty to do during the summer to take up our time–and as fun as it is, it can be a little exhausting.  I have to remind myself that it’s OK to just kick back and RELAX!

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Have a great summer, everyone!

What’s on your Summer Bucket List?

–Mary  

 

Creating Your Home Sweet Home! House Jewelry!

Creating Your Home Sweet Home!  House Jewelry!

My favorite part of creating my home sweet home always comes after the basic construction or remodeling jobs are completed–adding accessories to our homes is like putting on the perfect earrings or necklace to complete an outfit.

My daughter, Malia, has a fun phrase she uses to describe the unique design touches added to a home–“Accessories are the jewelry of your house!” 

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My builder/handyman husband likes to remind me that while accessorizing a home is certainly one of the more enjoyable parts of making your home special, all the “jewelry” so to speak, in the world can’t cover up a bad construction job!  It’s so true…but I will admit that I’m guilty, on occasion, of wanting to rush a project that my husband and I are doing when it seems like it’s taking twice as long as anticipated, so I can get on with the pretty part of home decorating!  (I hope I’m not the only impatient one!)  I’m always glad when I do hang in there while the necessary work is done right, because then my accessories look that much better when everything else around them looks good too.   

As a designer, Malia has the opportunity to oversee the finishing touches of so many darling homes, including those she’s doing on her own cute house!  It’s fun to see how “house jewelry” like hardware and lighting, or a unique back splash, can work together with more typical accessories such as vases and plants to make up the special personality of a home!

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 ◊ Simple Rules of Thumb for Accessorizing Your Home! ◊

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Add Accessories That Give A Fun Pop Of Color!

If your main home elements have a neutral palette, then it’s a good idea to add accessories that give a fun pop of color.  If you’re one that likes more color on your walls and other big furniture pieces, then the usual rule of thumb is to keep the finishing touches in your home more toned down.  Doing this, you don’t run the risk of having accessories look like gaudy costume jewelry with too much going on.  When accessorizing your home, it’s also a good idea to use one main color and two or three complimentary colors.

This has been a fairly hard concept for this mid-century modern, earth tone baby boomer to get on board with–I grew up reserving pops of color for my clothing!

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I know so many of you out there can relate!  Oh, yeah!

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On our recent trip to Dominican Republic, it was clearly evident that the people there have no problem adding pops of color to their homes!

I love how Malia has added variations of the colors red, yellow, and green to the neutral palette of her home.

Mantle Decor

You can use accessories that add color as subtle as the red candle sticks on Malia’s mantle or…

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…ones that add more bold color like the shower curtain and towels in her girl’s bathroom.

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Even something as simple as a little stool can add a fun pop of color to a room!  

Like the items placed on her mantel, Malia has also helped me see the neat effect of combining accessories that have some texture along with those that contain an architectural element.

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Add Accessories That Have Special Meaning!

It is always fun to look through magazines and see beautifully designed rooms on glossy pages, but they can seem a little impersonal.  When you add accessories that have special meaning, they’re what help give your home its unique personality–it’s sort of like they offer up an extra hug to all those who enter!  Using accessories that have a bit of nostalgia allows you the opportunity to add an eclectic mix to your home, in doing so however, be sure and still stay true to your main design style.

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Instead of a picture, I opted for a large, metal lattice hanging for my entry way–it reminds me of an ornate gate that led to my grandma’s garden

Vintage Roller Skates

This pair of old roller skates that sit on Malia’s book shelf are some she picked up at an antique shop on one of our trips to New York!  (And yes, along with my Naru, paisley shirts, I also owned a pair of these skates too–don’t they just make you happy!)    

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Probably the accessories I love the most are pictures of loved ones that highlight memories of special times we’ve spent together.  Malia would tell you that it’s also a good rule of thumb to use complementary colors in framed groupings–as you can see I used wood and bronze metal tones.

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Items in my home that were made by my mom or grandma are some of my most treasured accessories!

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Don’t Be Afraid To Use Accessories In Unconventional Ways!

Using accessories in ways other than their intended use give them a unique conversational juxtaposition to your home décor!  Scavenging various places for an unusual design element is half the fun of accessorizing your home!  

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One of my favorite accessories in Malia’s home is the old window over her bed.  Perhaps hanging an old window in your home isn’t something you’d typically do, but it works perfectly with Malia’s modern vintage décor!  Malia and I found this window at a local yard sale, then refinished the frame together and centered the red berry wreath on it to add a final finishing touch for a neat accessory in her master bedroom!

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  How fun are these croquet balls displayed in an old pickle jar! 

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Got an old school desk tucked away somewhere in storage, why not make it a night stand!  This one is in Makena’s room–Malia is in the process of finding one for Marli’s room–which brings me to the final rule of thumb for adding “jewelry” to your home…

Be patient and have fun! 

It takes time to find the perfect accessories, but the “hunt” can be so much fun!!

Regardless of how you decorate your home, it should always be a place where you are excited to come home to at the end of a busy day!

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 Any good accessory finds you’ve stumbled on lately?

–Mary

The Hippocratic Oath!

The Hippocratic Oath!  Never Do Harm!

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My husband and I just returned from visiting our youngest daughter, Mandi, in New York City and seeing our son-in-law, Cole, graduate from NYU’s Medical School!  Health care debates aside, there are many good reasons to be hopeful for the future of the world of medicine and for having a renewed faith in those who have dedicated their lives to overseeing that the best outcomes for our health and well-being are made possible!

The Original Hippocratic Oath

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The Hippocratic Oath has withstood the ages of time and still sets the precedence for high standards to be set by all doctors to follow as they establish their medical practices.  Like many other medical school commencement services taking place throughout the United States, New York Univeristy’s School of Medicine, Class of 2014, recited the Hippocratic Oath during their graduation ceremony.  (Cole’s graduating class recited a modified version of the oath adapted for our modern times by the late Professor John G. Curtis.)

“I do solemnly swear by that which I do hold most sacred:” 

 “That I will lead my life and practice my art in uprightness and honor;”

“That into whatsoever house I shall enter, it shall be for the good of the sick to the utmost of my power;”

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The keynote speaker at Cole’s graduation, Dr. Samuel Shem, a Rhodes Scholar, a member of the Harvard Medical School faculty, and a noted medical author, told the graduating medical students…

“Be part of the best America has to offer!”  

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“I holding myself aloof from wrong, from corruption, from the tempting of others to vice;”  

“That I will exercise my art solely for the cure of my patients, and give no drug, perform no operation for a criminal purpose, even if solicited, far less suggest it;”

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Dr. Shem also wisely counseled the students to…

“Speak up if you notice cruelties in your profession, don’t spread more suffering around, at the very least, don’t just doctor–HEAL!”

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“That whatsoever I shall see or hear of the lives of men which is not fitting to be spoken, I will keep inviolably secret;”

“These things I do promise and in proportion as I am faithful to this oath may happiness and good repute ever be mine–the opposite if I shall be forsworn!”

The Hippocratic Oath!

Dr. Shem’s closing remarks included this advice to these new doctors as they look forward to their various residency assignments…

“Be carriers of caring!  Learn your trade in the world–and know that your patients are your world.”

Like all wise words we hear, these truths hold their integrity for all of us in our various walks of life!  I was deeply touched by the spirit of enthusiasm for their ability of now being able to contribute to the power of healing that was exhibited by the fine men and women of New York University’s School of Medicine 2014 graduates!

Congratulations, Cole and Mandi! 

You deserve only the best as you continue your next four years in New York! 

Do you have an oath or life motto you try to live by–either personal or professional? 

–Mary