Leather Chair Reading! Feel Good Books!

Leather Chair Reading!  Feel Good Books!

I was telling someone at work the other day about the little neighborhood book club I’d recently joined and their response was

“…unless I’m on a plane with nothing better to do, I don’t have time to read a book!” 

When you think about it, that’s probably a pretty fair statement–our lives are fast-paced and our days get filled up with so many things that require our time and attention that setting aside time to pick up a good book has to be a conscious choice; this being the case, when I finally do take the time to relax and read a book, I usually tend to choose ones that are uplifting and make me feel better about life.  We’re all too aware that there’s an ample amount of media out there that can leave us second guessing ourselves and feeling somewhat despondent!

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A Couple Of Feel Good Books Worth Your Time!

So, for this edition of Leather Chair Reading, here’s a couple of my favorite “feel good” books…

“The Notebook”  by Nicholas Sparks

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Before you give me a hard time about what some might call a “sappy” love story, let me just tell you that in many respects, this book tells my own parent’s sweet love story.  Much like the storyline in the book, my mom saw her betrothed (such a dignified word) sweetheart go off to war.  While her soldier was gone, my father came into the picture, but in being true to herself and the proper decorum of those days, my mom wouldn’t commit her heart until her war-time hero, so to speak, had returned home so she could give him a fair chance to truly win her heart if marriage was to be in their future.  I’m happy to say that unlike Allie’s mother in the “The Notebook”, my grandma was a great source of comfort and support during this time period of important decision-making for my mom.

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Much like Rachel McAdam’s character in the movie version of “The Notebook”, my mom wasn’t deciding between a good or bad choice…

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…she was simply following her heart!

“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds and that’s what you’ve given me!  That is what I hope to give you forever!”  The Notebook 

Aside from the fact that the chain of events that unfolded in “The Notebook” paralleled my own parent’s courtship, I think timing also played a crucial role in how this book resonated with me.  I’d recently lost my dad to cancer, but prior to his passing away, we’d had to make arrangements for my mom to live in an assisted living center since she was suffering from the long-term effects of her worsening Parkinson’s disease, including muscle weakness and memory loss.

When this book first became available in the stores, I happened to pick it up to read to my husband while he finished up some painting he was doing in our family room.  As I read the last few chapters, I’ll never forget how my husband and I both ended up sitting on the floor with tears in our eyes, hearts heavy from memories of my father’s recent funeral.  You wouldn’t necessarily categorize a book that makes you cry as a feel good book–but for me, reading “The Notebook” was cathartic–exactly what I needed at the time to help me heal, somewhat, from my loss.     

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In the movie, the wonderful actor, James Garner, epitomized so perfectly the same tenderness and strife that my dad seemed to experience while he watched my mom’s health deteriorate.

If you have lost one or both of your parents, the inspired words of Nicholas Sparks in this insightful book offers a measure of comfort and understanding.  Besides, a sappy love story is a great, feel good, summer read sometimes!

“The Traveler’s Gift”  by Andy Andrews

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We read this book together as a family one summer when my children were in college.  We love to travel as a family, so the title caught my eye.  I think the kids might have grumbled a little when they first read the cover page, thinking it was one of their dad’s “Rah, rah, strive for success!” business guru books.  We were pleasantly surprised however, at the great read this book provided; we still refer to many of the neat lessons we learned in it that are intricately woven within the amazing story that is so eloquently told by author, Andy Andrews, of David Ponder, the main character, as he travels back in time, meeting legendary leaders and heroes at crucial times in their lives.

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The Traveler’s Gift offers a modern-day parable of one man’s choices–and the attitudes that make the difference between success and failure.”  Andy Andrews

Talk about the ultimate feel good book–“The Traveler’s Gift” truly does inspire you to want to live better!  I absolutely love this book and often find myself rereading some of the chapters whenever I need a little “pick-me-up” in my life!

I hope we can all make time to read a few good books this summer!  Any good ones you’d suggest?

–Mary

Celebrating Father’s Day! My Father’s Hands!

Celebrating Father’s Day!  My Father’s Hands!

My mom loved my dad’s hands; she always used to tell me to marry a man who has great hands!

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Since my father was a farmer and a college professor, I remember my father’s hands being a combination of calluses and chalk dust.

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“Fatherhood is the greatest education a man can ever receive!”   Asa Brown

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My father’s hands opened many doors of adventure and opportunity for me and my children by simply opening a good book!

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“I believe that what we become depends largely on what our father’s teach us at odd moments when they aren’t trying to teach us.  We are formed by little scraps of wisdom.”  Umberto Eco in “Foucault’s Pendulum

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My father loved being a citizen of this great land of America and proudly put his hand over his heart whenever he saw the flag!

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“My father gave me the greatest gift anyone can give another person, he believed in me!”  Jim Valvano

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My dad was a hugger; his hands gave great big warm hugs–he hugged his kids, his grandchildren and his friends.  Most of all, he loved to hug my mom–a lot!

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(My parents embarked upon their endearing love story on June 14, 1946–it would have been their 68th wedding anniversary today!)

“The greatest mark of a man is how he treats his family when no one is looking.” Dan Pearce

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What child doesn’t adore holding a loving father’s hand!  Oh, what I would do to be able to hold my father’s hand again today!

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“It’s only when you grow up and step back from him–or leave him for your own home–it seems it’s then that you really measure your father’s greatness and fully appreciate it.”  Margaret Truman

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I’m glad I listened to my mother’s advice and married someone with great hands.

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“A man never stands so tall as when he kneels to help a child.”  Knights of Pythagoras Creed

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I hope everyone has the best weekend celebrating your fathers!

What neat characteristic readily comes to mind when you think of your father or your children’s father?  Please, please share it.

–Mary

Cinderella Days! Spa Day Fun!

Cinderella Days!  Spa Day Fun!

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Just like their mother when she was growing up, I love that my granddaughters are both a good mix of “play ball” sports girls and “dress-up” princess girls! 

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(This is Marli’s version of “Punzel” from Tangled, complete with scarf hair!)

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A few of weeks ago, I decided it would be fun to pamper the more “girlie” side of Makena and Marli’s personalities and have a Spa Day!  I just have to tell you that this was perhaps one of the easiest Cinderella Day activities I’ve ever prepared for, but definitely one of the most fun that the girls and I have had together! 

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My grandma used to say that some nail polish and a little make-up always made everything so much more fun!  In this case, I whole heartedly agree–what little girl isn’t enamoured with pink and purple fingernail polish!

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I got the colored bandana scarfs and the little night gowns on sale at a local department store.  Makena and Marli were so thrilled…they twirled around in their spa day attire all afternoon!  (My hope is that my granddaughters will always remember our special spa day together every time they wear these nightgowns to bed at home!)  

Spa Day!

Is there anything as cute as little girl’s brightly painted nails!

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 Waiting for the polish to dry is always the hardest part!

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 Girl's Spa Day Fun! www.mytributejournal.comIt’s funny to me, but one of the things the girls loved the most was when I dabbed on some “special” pink lotion and then told them to rub it in carefully–it’s never too late to get a jump start on preventing those annoying “crows feet”!  However, I say bring on the smile and laugh lines!  Ha!

Another delightful Cinderella Day with my sweet granddaughters!  My cup runneth over!

I would love some ideas from you on future Cinderella Day activities I could plan that you’ve done with your children or grandchildren!

–Mary