Celebrating Father’s Day! My Father’s Hands!

Celebrating Father’s Day!  My Father’s Hands!

My mom loved my dad’s hands; she always used to tell me to marry a man who has great hands!

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Since my father was a farmer and a college professor, I remember my father’s hands being a combination of calluses and chalk dust.

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“Fatherhood is the greatest education a man can ever receive!”   Asa Brown

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My father’s hands opened many doors of adventure and opportunity for me and my children by simply opening a good book!

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“I believe that what we become depends largely on what our father’s teach us at odd moments when they aren’t trying to teach us.  We are formed by little scraps of wisdom.”  Umberto Eco in “Foucault’s Pendulum

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My father loved being a citizen of this great land of America and proudly put his hand over his heart whenever he saw the flag!

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“My father gave me the greatest gift anyone can give another person, he believed in me!”  Jim Valvano

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My dad was a hugger; his hands gave great big warm hugs–he hugged his kids, his grandchildren and his friends.  Most of all, he loved to hug my mom–a lot!

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(My parents embarked upon their endearing love story on June 14, 1946–it would have been their 68th wedding anniversary today!)

“The greatest mark of a man is how he treats his family when no one is looking.” Dan Pearce

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What child doesn’t adore holding a loving father’s hand!  Oh, what I would do to be able to hold my father’s hand again today!

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“It’s only when you grow up and step back from him–or leave him for your own home–it seems it’s then that you really measure your father’s greatness and fully appreciate it.”  Margaret Truman

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I’m glad I listened to my mother’s advice and married someone with great hands.

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“A man never stands so tall as when he kneels to help a child.”  Knights of Pythagoras Creed

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I hope everyone has the best weekend celebrating your fathers!

What neat characteristic readily comes to mind when you think of your father or your children’s father?  Please, please share it.

–Mary

Celebrating Life And The Easter Season!

Celebrating Life And The Easter Season!

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As a maternity and nursery nurse, I’m often asked what I love most about my job …hmm, that’s a tough one!  Like any job, there’s definitely a few things that can be a bit of a hassle, (too much paperwork quickly comes to mind?!) but for the most part, I really do have the best job!

Spring time is always an extra busy baby season at most hospitals!  The word Easter is actually derived from the word Eostre, which means goddess of spring and fertility, so I guess it makes sense that new life and Easter go hand in hand.  It seems most everyone would like a spring baby–I love celebrating my March birthday, and my own children were born in February and April!

The Miracle Of Birth!

As we celebrate the Easter season, let me share a few of the things that I love about my job as a nurse who has cared for many precious newborns as they’ve made their debut into this world!

The Miracle of Birth! www.mytributejournal.com♥  Strength and tenderness are interchangeable terms when it comes to having a baby!  Unaware of their true capabilities, I have often observed many remarkable women, including my own daughter, who reach deep into their untapped reservoirs of strength to help them push through unbearable pain and exhaustion when giving birth; this is matched only by the tender strength of the love shown by a new mom as she holds her sweet newborn for the first time!

“A mother’s arms are made of strength and tenderness and children sleep soundly in them!” Victor Hugo

♥  Giving birth is a team sport, but the mom is the star player!  Sometimes women come to the hospital with many preconceived notions of what having a baby entails.  A good medical team and loving family members, most importantly the baby’s father, should try to do everything within their power to follow the desired delivery game plan.  A big part of a nurse’s role is to be an active member of the laboring mom’s cheering squad, that being said, we also have the “home team” advantage, so to speak, so if some unexpected curveballs sideline some of her wishes, our main priority will still always be that of making sure every delivery has the best possible outcome!

One quick example…my good friend’s daughter was recently admitted to one of our labor suites for delivery.  Her birth plan included an epidural, and in her words, “any other drugs deemed necessary!”  However, her preliminary platelet count was low enough that this procedure was contraindicated.  Can you even imagine the pep talk she had to give herself when she got the news that other than possibly some IV pain medication, she’d have to deliver naturally–that is a drastic game changer for women where pain-free comfort during labor is a top priority.  Her husband’s role also changed, he had to become a more active team player, coaching his wife through the contractions and keeping her spirits energized to see her through the safe arrival of their little baby.  The delivery went well, but this cute mom has earned major bragging rights!   

♥  The most cherished pictures of a newborn’s arrival are often the ones captured in your heart!  There are countless ways available to record a baby’s birth–and believe me, it’s a camera worthy time for any family welcoming a tiny new addition!  However, the miracle of birth is one of those unique times in life that deserves our full attention–living in the moment, if you will…and that can’t always be achieved when you’re behind the lens of a camera.  The first sweet nuances of these precious babies during the initial hours of their lives leaves little doubt in my mind that newborns indeed come directly from heaven–it is a special experience that should be cherished and will most certainly be etched on your heart forever!

I’ve shared a few more thoughts here about embarking on the amazing journey of parenthood–to be sure, it is an endearing, wild ride!

My mom always used to say, “When you touch a new baby’s hand, it can’t help but touch your heart, confirming to you that they’ve just talked with God!” 

(Greg Olsen Gallery)

This picture hangs in my living room as a beautiful reminder that even on our hardest days, there is always someone looking after us!

I hope everyone has a very Happy Easter! 

Since it’s also baby shower season, coming up soon are some ideas for baby gifts that I love to give.

–Mary

The Happiness Challenge!

The Happiness Challenge!

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(via Mary Englebreit cards!)

Recovering from your winter funk–what better way to “snap out of it” than the “Happiness Challenge” 

Happiness Challenge--Can you be happy for 100 days!

…want to join me on this latest venture of mine at #100happydays!  Come on, it will be fun–and we’ll learn so much about each other and what makes us truly happy!

You all know that one of the things I love around my home is inspiring quotes!  This one on “Happiness…” is a favorite!  My mom gave it to me–so it has extra special meaning and value to me!

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My mom was always my happiness inspiration…she was such a happy and serene person–one I had the privilege of knowing and loving!

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Let’s do this!  Tell me what makes you happy during the next 100 days!  Our combined happiness journey may just take over the world–or at the very least, our little corner of the universe! 

 Follow along with my 100 happy days on my Facebook page…..share yours there too!   

–Mary