Garden Therapy! Spring Gardening!

Garden Therapy!  Spring Gardening!

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I really can’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t love helping with yard work, either with my parents at our home when I was growing up, or helping my cute grandma in her garden!  Everything about gardening holds such happy, joyful memories for me–maybe that’s why when the hectic schedules of life get me feeling a little frantic, I can’t wait to grab my bucket and yard tools and head outside so I can go recover my “zen” –so to speak, and enjoy a little “Garden Therapy”!

One of my children asked me once why I loved yard work so much–and since it had been one of those days…I responded–perhaps a little too quickly, “Because nothing talks back out here!”

I’m not a professional by any means, and the things I’ll share in these Garden Therapy features are just a culmination of tried and true things that my husband and I have found worked well for us over the years.  We always seek out expert opinions when we’re trying something new and still hire the pros for jobs that are just better done by those that are more skilled and knowledgeable!

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Spring Is In The Aer-ating!

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I didn’t use to see the need for punching holes in your grass that left little dirt pellets all over that had to be raked up.  I have come to realize however, that doing this helps air circulate down to the lawn’s roots, helping fertilizer applied be more effective, thus establishing a stronger root system that will hold water much better when the weather warms up–resulting in thicker, greener grass!  Healthy grass also tends to withstand pesky lawn grubs that can cause some serious damage later in the summer season.  Speaking of fertilizers, there are many good commercial brands out there, but my husband and I have found that by contacting the grass specialists who take care of the local golf courses, (they obviously have to know their stuff) we are able to get a fertilizer blend that is best suited for lawn care in our area.

Put A Little Pep Into Your Spring Gardening!

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Soil pep that is…I can’t even begin to tell you how much I love this stuff!  Soil pep is a wood byproduct compost that is mixed with other organic materials.  Where I live, there is quite a bit of clay in the soil, so mixing soil pep into the dirt makes it a lot more pliable–I know, it sounds like I’m talking about a hair care product!  Soil pep helps plants retain moisture better, so overall you will water less–but the thing I like the very most about it is that as you mix it in your flowerbeds each growing season, weeds become practically nonexistent…if any dare to pop up, the soil is so soft they’re easily pulled out!  I also love that soil pep is a natural looking mulch and has such a nice, fragrant smell that you almost feel like you’re in the middle of a pine forest!

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Let Your Spring Gardening Go To Pot!

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We all know how finicky spring weather can be, and because there is so much fluctuation in temperatures where I live, it’s not usually recommended to plant flowers until after Mother’s Day.  Bulbs seem to have a short lifespan here as well, so for me, they’re not something I want to spend a lot of time and effort doing.  I find that the easiest and best way to get the color I crave in my yard this time of year is to plant some container pots and planters.  The flower selections that are available during the spring season seems to expand more and more each year.  Plants that don’t do well out in the cool, spring evening air can also be put into a few smaller, more mobile flower pots that are easily brought inside at night.  It’s always fun to add seasonal holiday decor to these planters too!

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After a long winter, it’s easy to feel a little overwhelmed when thinking about all that needs to be done in our yards.  I do my darndest to live by the “don’t eat the whole elephant in one sitting” philosophy that my parents taught me, and try to concentrate on just one area at a time.  Luckily, my husband loves working in the yard almost as much as I do, so we make a good team.  Often our biggest problem is that we need to do better at reminding ourselves to take the time to kick back and relax and enjoy the fruits of our labors more!

Next up in Garden Therapy, I thought I’d share some of my very favorite plants in my yard that look beautiful and thrive with very little work!

Happy Spring Gardening!

I’d love to get in on any great spring gardening tips you might have!

–Mary

 

Let’s Be Awesomer!

Let’s Be Awesomer!

Rock climbing in City of Rocks  www.mytributejournal.comI’m certain that the title of this post will give English teachers and grammar high brows out there some major heart burn, however, a lot of dictionary resources, including Wordnik, recognize it as an urbanized word that is occasionally used in trendy vernacular now days.  I just figured that as long as we’re working on being happier, we might as well go for upping our awesome quotient too!

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(Official NBC Olympic Logo) 

On the heels of watching so many incredible Olympic feats performed in Russia last month, and now seeing the athletic prowess of so many college basketball players in the NCAA championships–I often marvel at the physical and mental stamina required to be able to excel beyond the seemingly “normal” limits of human endurance!  My interests are also drawn to the backstories of diligence and perseverance they develop despite the sometimes critical scrutiny of their ability to perform!  The truer measure of a person is often defined in more poignant terms when he or she is away from the public arena.  Regardless, of the environment, self motivation and caring support from others are key factors!

Adrien Payne NCAA story

(Courtesy HLN News)

This story about Adreian Payne and his young fan, as the headline states, is “hands down” the most touching to make the news during this season’s NCAA championships!  It’s a classic tale of what can be accomplished when you do your best to hone great skill and talent with equal amounts of heart and humility!  The relationships developed will last long after the discussions of playoff brackets have ended!

Although our personal “playing fields”, so to speak, may differ vastly from those already mentioned, I think we can all agree that everyone has challenges that must be faced with a certain degree of fervor and finesse in order to achieve our various obligations and goals in life…helping us be AWESOMER!

Becoming Awesomer–A Personal Story!

I hope you won’t mind indulging me as I share a personal story of athletic triumph of sorts, that had a significant impact on me…

At the beginning of his sophomore year in high school, my son, Jake, was lifting weights in the boy’s gym when he was approached by the wrestling coach to join the team in the light weight category.  Now Jake’s first love is baseball, but he knew that there weren’t too many open positions that year on the baseball team, so he decided to do wrestling.  The fact that Jake never participated in his junior high school wrestling program, which was almost unheard of for anyone wanting to compete on a high school level where we lived, didn’t seem to faze him too much.

Jake trained hard and stayed long hours at the gym, in addition to keeping good grades in his other classes.  Jake also had to monitor what he ate each day so he could stay within a pound or two of his competing weight class.  As a mom it was hard to watch some of those first tournaments.

During Jake’s junior and senior years, his wrestling skills improved and he won quite a few tournaments, but wasn’t necessarily favored to qualify for the state championships!  Then, as fate would have it, for Jake’s final qualifying match, he ended up being paired up against the guy who was considered an easy “shoe-in” to win his weight class at the state tournament.  All I knew is that his opponent (wearing the dark brown) stood a full foot taller than Jake!

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Viewmont High School Wrestling Play-offs!  www.mytributejournal.com

Viewmont High School Wrestling Play-offs!  www.mytributejournal.com

Jake came away the unlikely victor at his wrestling match, qualifying him to compete in the state championships his senior year of high school!

As parents, we all know that the backstory to any of our children’s successes is that aside from the ample amounts of love and support we give them, the caring influence of good coaches, teachers, church leaders and friends, who work hard to help your child develop their inner conviction to be the very best they can be, should never be underestimated!

I also know for a fact, that the encouragement of their siblings is one of the most important driving forces behind many of my children’s accomplishments!

One neat example of this was when my two younger children, Jake and Mandi, went on a rock climbing excursion…

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…climbing a steep crevice in the City of Rocks, Mandi couldn’t seem to find the right foot holds to get up the rest of the mountain…yeah, my family’s crazy like that!?!

Rock Climbing in the City of Rocks  www.mytributejournal.comJake eventually jumped in and with equal amounts of kind encouragement and “get your butt going” –they were able to scale the mountain to the top!

Rock climbing in City of Rocks  www.mytributejournal.comTo this day, even with so many miles separating them, my children continue to look to each other as a great support system for helping them each achieve the “awesomer” version of themselves!  That does any parent’s heart good!

What I’m learning now is…

As much as we love our children, realistically, we have to be OK with the fact that we are just one of many key players that provide the needed support and encouragement in their lives so that they…   

Let's Be Awesomer! www.mytributejournal.comWhat are some ways you encourage your children to succeed and do their best?    

–Mary

Also, with spring finally making a consistent appearance, coming up next week will be the first of a few new features to be showcased regularly–yeah!

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The Happiness Challenge!

The Happiness Challenge!

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(via Mary Englebreit cards!)

Recovering from your winter funk–what better way to “snap out of it” than the “Happiness Challenge” 

Happiness Challenge--Can you be happy for 100 days!

…want to join me on this latest venture of mine at #100happydays!  Come on, it will be fun–and we’ll learn so much about each other and what makes us truly happy!

You all know that one of the things I love around my home is inspiring quotes!  This one on “Happiness…” is a favorite!  My mom gave it to me–so it has extra special meaning and value to me!

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My mom was always my happiness inspiration…she was such a happy and serene person–one I had the privilege of knowing and loving!

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Let’s do this!  Tell me what makes you happy during the next 100 days!  Our combined happiness journey may just take over the world–or at the very least, our little corner of the universe! 

 Follow along with my 100 happy days on my Facebook page…..share yours there too!   

–Mary