Happy One Year Anniversary!

Happy One Year Anniversary!

It’s hard for me to believe that I’m celebrating the one year anniversary of my website going live!  Whew!  Thanks to all my supportive family members and friends!  Also, I’d like to once again thank my daughter-in-law, Whitney, who held my hand (and often saved my sanity) during the beginning phases of this venture!

The Sacred Grove www.mytributejournal.com

Lessons I’ve Learned From My Tribute Journal!

One Year Anniversary! Be fearless! www.mytributejournal.com

I love to browse home decor blogs and party/entertaining websites.  A few years ago, if I’d ever had the inclination to start a website, perhaps I’d have gone this route.  I’m sort of a closet designer and my daughter is an interior decorator and we both love fun parties, so it might have been a good mix.

Then a life changing experience altered my perspective of things so drastically that all I could think about was trying to somehow find a way to better define my life as I knew it!  Luckily, the amazing foundation my parents gave me during my childhood helped me withstand my heartbreak, so from that standpoint, I knew I needed to take a really good look at what they’d taught me so I could once again see all that is really wonderful in the world!  I also felt a strong desire to broaden my scope even more by inviting others to share what they’ve learned from their parents and important mentors in their lives.  Thus, the birth of “My Tribute Journal”!

I think it is brave when someone lets people take a peak inside their home and lifestyle, but believe me, you have to be a little fearless to share what’s in your heart!

Step outside the box! www.mytributejournal.com

As a “baby boomer”, so to speak, taking on the task of grasping more than the basic fundamental details of working with a computer was a bit daunting, to say the least!

Step outside the box! www.mytributejournal.com

You’ve heard the saying, “Hope for the best, but expect the worst!”  Hope is definitely the name of the game as you re-invent yourself to a certain degree, and step outside the box!  In being realistic, you can build on your strengths and seek help from others more qualified where you may fall short.  Your expectations can then remain well grounded and you live your life accordingly.  It’s all about juggling life’s tricky “balancing act”!

One year anniversary! Like yourself and love your family! www.mytributejournal.com

I can say with certainty that I have definitely broadened my horizons in the social media world, but with the ever evolving influx of new information, it’s impossible to become totally proficient in all that it encompasses.  I vowed when I started out on this journey that a personal phone call, a handwritten note, or finding that perfect gift for someone would never be replaced with the sometimes impersonal nature of the internet world!  I find that I “Like” myself enough to never let the valuable relationships of those I “Love” so dearly, not know some personal attention!

Happy One Year Anniversary! www.mytributejournal.com

Thanks from the bottom of my heart to family members and dear friends who have made this such a wonderful year of growth!

–Mary

  

All Kinds Of Kinds! Recognizing Our Superpowers!

It Takes All Kinds Of Kinds!

World Globe

 

“Ever since the beginning, to keep the world spinning, it takes all kinds of kinds.”

From lyrics “All Kinds Of Kinds” by Miranda Lambert

 

My husband and I entered our local airport in the early morning hours one day last May to catch a flight for a combined work/play vacation to Puerto Vallarta.  We were just a few of a handful of people in the airport terminal at the time, so we couldn’t help but notice the energetic disposition of an airport employee who greeted the ticket agents with warm regard and polished the metal fronts of their individual ticket counters with meticulous care!  I wasn’t sure whether this person was just coming on duty or about to finish up his work shift, I just knew that in the few minutes I observed him, he had made enough of an impact on me that I seemed to feel a little less weary and made a mental note to approach the rest of my day with a more positive outlook–after all, I was going on vacation!

Once settled in our seats on the plane, my husband and I observed a disgruntled passenger in the aisle that an airline attendant appeased with charming finesse!  By now, I couldn’t help mentioning to my husband how great some people were at their jobs!  Not that I hadn’t noticed before, but with little else to really occupy my time, I was a captive audience!  As my husband adjusted a pillow behind his head, he simply stated, “That’s what makes life so great–most of us work hard to find our niche, then we try our best to do really well at it!”  Pretty impressive wisdom, considering it was very early and my husband was about to go to sleep!

Since that day, I’ve tried to do better at noticing all the hard work others do–especially when it impacts my life…

Yard Construction www.mytributejournal.com

I think I’ve mentioned, oh, maybe at least a few dozen times, that we’ve had some yard construction done around our house this summer!  The workers who came to re-coat our foundation were some of the hardest working guys I’ve ever seen!  It was a hot summer, but the heat never seemed to bother them!  It takes amazing skill to apply the cement mix.  These men are truly artists at their profession!

Taking pride in a job well done!

On a quick trip to the store to buy more drinks and treats for some of the men working at our house, I was helped with my grocery sacks by a kind, energetic worker gathering carts in the parking lot!  I had my two granddaughters with me, and after we’d gotten back in the car, my oldest granddaughter, Makena said “It was sure nice of that guy to help you grandma, and he was so happy!”         

Home Construction www.mytributejournal.com

I was in awe at the coordination and attention to detail that was required to pour the cement for our new driveway!  The contractor worked as hard as the rest of his crew members!  A couple of the young workers were his sons–I mean we’re talking really young guys here, and yet the skill set they had obviously learned from their dad on the technique of finishing cement was amazing!  You could tell they took real pride in a job well done!

Yard Construction www.mytributejournal.comYard Construction www.mytributejournal.com

I am reminded of the expert skills of some talented and diligent workers every time I set foot out my front door! 

My husband works in the financial planning field and helps others budget and invest their money.  He does a lot of retirement 401K work too.  He is well versed in the nature of our crazy roller coaster economy and plans his investor’s money accordingly.  He is patient and kind as he reassures clients of their financial futures; it seems that many often view him as an extended family member!  I also love that my oldest daughter’s husband knew that he wanted to work with numbers when he was about twelve years old.  Shane is a math wizard and a great CPA, and seems to know the tax laws like the back of his hand!  I work hard for my money, but find that paying the bills and balancing my checkbook is about as far as I want to venture into the financial world, so I am very appreciative for those who know how to help manage it!

Taking pride in a job well done! www.mytributejournal.comNaja is a housekeeper on the women’s unit at the hospital where I work.  Naja came from Bosnia and doesn’t speak a lot of English, but always greets you with a smile!  Naja goes out of her way to make everything neat and clean.  The floors are perfectly polished and the patient beds are beautifully made by Naja–she doesn’t miss a thing!  I once asked Naja if it was hard for her to go home and clean her own house after work, but she just laughed shyly and told me that she enjoys making things nice for everyone.  The patients especially take note of Naja’s hard work.  Naja constantly inspires me to do my job better!

I work with doctors and nurses who are a credit to their profession and are fun to be around and considerate of others, despite the long hours spent at the hospital.  As my son-in-law, Cole, works to finish up his last year of medical school, I know he will be a valuable asset to the medical field, and not only because of his keen ability to grasp the ever-expanding knowledge base that is required to be a doctor, but also for his desire to be genuinely kind and caring as well!

Medical school! www.mytributejournal.com

Watching my father during his many years in the teaching profession, I know how hard he worked, and I realize that being a teacher is one of the hardest jobs in the world if it is done right!  More on this topic coming next week!

Finally, as my husband and I waited for our flight on that morning last May, I saw that most of the other early arriving travelers were military personnel who were leaving for deployment or making a transfer to another base assignment.  Words are not sufficient to describe the selfless, courageous work of these brave people!

Army training www.mytributejournal.com  

Recognizing  Our Superpowers!

Superpowers! www.mytributejournal.com

This is a saying on a cup I recently received as a wonderful gift.  It made me stop and think what I might be capable of in my life if I worked like I really believed that I did hold some sort of superpowers!  In all the various roles we take on each day, how much better would we be at the things we wanted to accomplish if we conducted ourselves as if we actually held magical abilities to help make life better for others?

After being more observant of other’s abilities lately, I’m starting to believe more and more in superpowers! 

Superpowers www.mytributejournal.com

 

 

Since I’m required to wear scrubs at work, I have to at least let my shoes show that I’m willing to go the distance, so to speak!  Ha!

Running shoes www.mytributejournal.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anyone you’ve observed lately with the extraordinary ability to be amazing at what they do, no matter the circumstances?  

–Mary

Cinderella Days! Busy Worker Bees!

Cinderella Days!  Two Fun Busy Worker Bees!

Cindrella Days! www.mytributejournal.comThe work ethic exhibited by Cinderella in the classic Disney movie, is alive and well in my darling granddaughters!  

Despite the outdoor construction going on around our house this summer, I didn’t want the dusty mess to hamper the fun I enjoyed with my two sweet granddaughters when they came to visit.  My worries were quickly put to rest though, as soon as I realized that Makena and Marli thought cleaning up my patio was just another opportunity for us to share a fun afternoon together on one of our recent “Cinderella Days”!

In his book, Life’s Greatest Lessons–20 Things That Matter, author, Hal Urban, points out that “…work and fun aren’t opposites!”  My cute granddaughters emulated this perfectly as they helped me clean my patio!  Just like busy, little worker bees, Makena and Marli happily flitted from one job to another while they chattered and laughed with delightful, synchronized energy and teamwork!  I was mesmerized while watching them work beside me!

Worker Bees! www.mytributejournal.com

Makena and Marli almost seemed to have an unspoken language as they worked together…while one sprayed on the cleaner, the other followed and wiped up afterward!  They especially enjoyed using grandpa’s air compressor to blow the dust off the wicker furniture!

Worker Bees! www.mytributejournal.com

I believe there is no greater feeling of satisfaction than that of completing a task and knowing you’ve done your best!  Even at their young ages, my daughter and her husband have obviously done a great job of helping their girls enjoy good work habits!

Worker Bees! www.mytributejournal.com

Worker Bees! www.mytributejournal.com

It’s important to have children see that we can laugh, play and have fun while we work!  Marli reminded us to take time to admire our efforts!  I think it’s also good to enjoy a little reward for your hard work too!

“The harder I work, the more I live!”  George Bernard Shaw (playwright)

Working hard! www.mytributejournal.com

I’d love to hear how you make work fun in your families!

–Mary

Also, as the baseball season gets closer to the playoffs and the upcoming World Series, I want to give special recognition to my granddaughter, Makena, and the great job she did playing on her t-ball team this summer!  My husband and I loved watching our children play baseball and softball throughout the years when they were growing up, so it was fun to see Makena carry on the tradition with such enthusiasm!

Playing t-ball! www.mytributejournals.com

Playing t-ball! www.mytributejournal.comPlaying t-ball! www.mytributjournal.com

 Cute princess girls not only work hard, they wear ball caps too! 

XOXO!